EMOTIONALLY BLINDED... taking leave off your senses!
Intro ; The moment that you start to wonder
if you deserve better, then you do.
~Gecko & fly.
Every 14th of February is been mark by many across the globe to express their profound feelings and endearment for others, known as Valentine day.
But this article is beaming search light on the other part of love, the abusive part of it.
Am introducing you into this with this fictional story.
Francis and Caroline were both course mates at the University.
But while Francis is a cool headed, brilliant & handsome guy. Caroline, though beautiful but not such sound academically, an extrovert and fun lover she was.
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Coincidentally, they both met in an examination hall both shared a table next to each others.
At her questions of no idea, Francis was able to help her out, thus was so excited and wish to know more of Francis.
After their papers, Caroline pleaded with Francis to have launch together as a token of her appreciation, the request to which Francis obliged. And that was the genesis of their friendship.
Few months into their friendship, they were emotionally involved with each others and which turned into romance.
They were into this relationship of their last two semesters. During this period, Caroline, being an extrovert and fun seeker do attend various shows and parties staged in the campus a times off campus.
This attitude do piss Francis off but because he's now emotionally attached to Caroline and so much in love with her, he found it hard to confront her but rather comfort himself that it's a matter of time for her to get off her youthful exuberant, whenever his friends complained about Caroline lifestyle.
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After their school days, they got engaged and eventually got married.
But instead of Caroline to change, she continues her way of life, socializing and partying every now and then. But now, Francis had started complaining but Caroline wouldn't bulge, defending her actions to be her own way of life and that Francis was aware of it before marrying her.
This issue was draining Francis both mentally and emotionally as he has to spend many weekends all alone by himself, since Caroline would have gone for one occasion or the other.
This mental instability started affecting his Job, he was making unnecessary blunders every now and then. And that led to termination of his appointment at work.
Few months into Francis joblessness, Caroline walked away, demanding for divorce.
Are you enjoying or enduring?
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You've become an object of his lust, his sex machine, even outside the wedlock, thinking you can pin him down with sex. Dear lady, sex isn't a strategy for successful relationship, you are only emotionally blinded. Even as a married spouse, if he only creates a lovely atmosphere whenever he want your body, but every other day, you can't sit and joke with your spouse, that's nothing but abuse.
Hi gentleman, you are aware that you are in no wise compatible with her , considering your visions, goals and purpose for life. You know she doesn't fit in to your world but due to her sex dexterity or other flimsy excuses that has blocked your logical reasoning, made you stick to that wrong relationship.
Ladies and gentlemen, while am not advocating for divorce or discord in relationship but rather suing for partners references, esteemed and respect each others.
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This is about promoting peace and harmony in relationships and a voice of courage to leave an abusive relationship; either physical or emotional abuse.
Never should you allow your emotions to enslaved you in abusive affairs, summon the courage to move on.
Mind you, many are those that has passed on to great beyond courtesy of abusive partner. Some are maimed, some lost job and other valuables.
So say no to abusive relationship, don't be emotionally blinded, Love isn't blind.
#LoveAffairs... building a lovely world!
JOEL KAYODE
/HUMAN RESOURCES TRAINING & DEVELOPMENT STRATEGIST /
For training & products ;Jkinspireschannelmagazine@gmai.com
if you deserve better, then you do.
~Gecko & fly.
Every 14th of February is been mark by many across the globe to express their profound feelings and endearment for others, known as Valentine day.
But this article is beaming search light on the other part of love, the abusive part of it.
Am introducing you into this with this fictional story.
Francis and Caroline were both course mates at the University.
But while Francis is a cool headed, brilliant & handsome guy. Caroline, though beautiful but not such sound academically, an extrovert and fun lover she was.
www.facebook.com/jkinspireschannel; like our Facebook page.
Coincidentally, they both met in an examination hall both shared a table next to each others.
At her questions of no idea, Francis was able to help her out, thus was so excited and wish to know more of Francis.
After their papers, Caroline pleaded with Francis to have launch together as a token of her appreciation, the request to which Francis obliged. And that was the genesis of their friendship.
Few months into their friendship, they were emotionally involved with each others and which turned into romance.
They were into this relationship of their last two semesters. During this period, Caroline, being an extrovert and fun seeker do attend various shows and parties staged in the campus a times off campus.
This attitude do piss Francis off but because he's now emotionally attached to Caroline and so much in love with her, he found it hard to confront her but rather comfort himself that it's a matter of time for her to get off her youthful exuberant, whenever his friends complained about Caroline lifestyle.
www.instagram.com/jkinspireschannel ; connect with us on Instagram.
After their school days, they got engaged and eventually got married.
But instead of Caroline to change, she continues her way of life, socializing and partying every now and then. But now, Francis had started complaining but Caroline wouldn't bulge, defending her actions to be her own way of life and that Francis was aware of it before marrying her.
This issue was draining Francis both mentally and emotionally as he has to spend many weekends all alone by himself, since Caroline would have gone for one occasion or the other.
This mental instability started affecting his Job, he was making unnecessary blunders every now and then. And that led to termination of his appointment at work.
Few months into Francis joblessness, Caroline walked away, demanding for divorce.
Now, Francis lost his job, sanity, peace and wife to his emotional blindness.Ladies and gentlemen, how about your own relationship?
Are you enjoying or enduring?
What abuse are you enduring due to your emotional blindness? Are you a mere object of lust or just ATM like in that relationship? Are you truly compatible or you're only emotionally blinded?An intending spouse that has started giving you a beat up even before marriage, yet you're enduring because you afraid of loosing him, what other yardstick do you need to know he isn't the best for you?
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You've become an object of his lust, his sex machine, even outside the wedlock, thinking you can pin him down with sex. Dear lady, sex isn't a strategy for successful relationship, you are only emotionally blinded. Even as a married spouse, if he only creates a lovely atmosphere whenever he want your body, but every other day, you can't sit and joke with your spouse, that's nothing but abuse.
Hi gentleman, you are aware that you are in no wise compatible with her , considering your visions, goals and purpose for life. You know she doesn't fit in to your world but due to her sex dexterity or other flimsy excuses that has blocked your logical reasoning, made you stick to that wrong relationship.
Ladies and gentlemen, while am not advocating for divorce or discord in relationship but rather suing for partners references, esteemed and respect each others.
www.youtube.com/JKinspiresCHANNEL ; watch educative and inspiring contents.
This is about promoting peace and harmony in relationships and a voice of courage to leave an abusive relationship; either physical or emotional abuse.
Never should you allow your emotions to enslaved you in abusive affairs, summon the courage to move on.
Mind you, many are those that has passed on to great beyond courtesy of abusive partner. Some are maimed, some lost job and other valuables.
So say no to abusive relationship, don't be emotionally blinded, Love isn't blind.
#LoveAffairs... building a lovely world!
JOEL KAYODE
/HUMAN RESOURCES TRAINING & DEVELOPMENT STRATEGIST /
For training & products ;Jkinspireschannelmagazine@gmai.com
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